1. When and how did you first meet......? [name of spouse or cohabitee]
2. How did it go between you at first?
3. When and where did you first live together?
4. When did you get married?
5. How is being married to......?
6. Do you have or are you planning to have children?
7. How do you get along with her/his family?
8. How about her/his friends?
9. When you think about the future, how does it look?
10. Is there anything else you would like to add?